Without Black People this world wouldn't be SHIT.

Life Without Black People
A very humorous and revealing story is told about a group of white people who were fed up with African Americans, so they joined together and wished themselves away. They passed through a deep dark tunnel and emerged in sort of a twilight zone where there is an America without black people. At first these white people breathed a sigh of relief.'At last', they said, 'no more crime, drugs, violence and welfare.'All of the blacks have gone! Then suddenly, reality set in. The 'NEW AMERICA' is not America at all - only a barren land.1. There are very few crops that have flourished because the nation was built on a slave-supported system.

2. There are no cities with tall skyscrapers because Alexander Mils, a black man, invented the elevator, and without it, one finds great difficulty reaching higher floors.

3. There are few if any cars because

Richard Spikes, a black man, invented the automatic gear shift, Joseph Gambol, also black, invented the Super Charge System for

Internal Combustion Engines, and Garrett A. Morgan, a black man,

invented the

traffic signals.

4. Furthermore, one could not use the

rapid transit system because its procurer was the electric trolley, which was invented by another black man, Albert R. Robinson.

5. Even if there were streets on which cars and a

rapid transit system could operate, they were cluttered with paper because an

African American, Charles Brooks, invented the street sweeper..

6. There were few if any newspapers, magazines and books because John Love invented the pencil sharpener, William Purveys invented the

fountain pen, and Lee Barrage invented the Type Writing Machine and W. A. Love invented the

Advanced Printing Press. They were all, you guessed it, Black.

7. Even if Americans could write their letters, articles and books, they would not have been transported by mail because

William Barry invented the Post marking and Canceling Machine, William Purveys invented the Hand Stamp and Philip Downing invented the Letter Drop.

8. The lawns were brown and wilted because

Joseph Smith invented the

Lawn Sprinkler and John Burr the Lawn Mower.

9. When they entered their homes, they found them to be poorly ventilated and poorly heated. You see,

Frederick Jones invented the Air Conditioner and

Alice Parker the Heating Furnace. Their homes were also dim. But of course, Lewis

Lattimer later invented the Electric Lamp, Michael Harvey invented the lantern, and Granville T. Woods invented the Automatic Cut off Switch. Their homes were also filthy because Thomas W. Steward invented the Mop and Lloyd P. Ray the Dust Pan.

10. Their children met them at the door - barefooted, shabby, motley and unkempt.  But what could one expect? Jan E. Matzelinger invented the Shoe Lasting Machine, Walter Sammons invented the Comb, Sarah Boone invented the Ironing Board, and George T. Samon invented the Clothes Dryer.

11. Finally, they were resigned to at least have dinner amidst all of this turmoil. But here again, the food had spoiled because another Black Man, John Standard invented the refrigerator...

Now, isn't that something? What would this country be like without the contributions of Blacks, as African-Americans?

Martin Luther King, Jr. said, 'by the time we leave for work, millions of Americans have depended on the inventions from the minds of Blacks.'

Black history includes more than just slavery,

Frederick Douglass, Martin Luther King, Jr.,

Malcolm X, and

Marcus Garvey & W.E.B. Dubois.

 

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Tears In My Ears

There is a difference between being fake and smiling through your pain. I am great at pulling through tough times because that is what I had perfected over the years..even as a child. Even when I was child in first grade I knew I was different than all of the other kids in my class. When "Take Your Kid To Work Day" came around and all of the other kids were excused to visit their parents and I was stuck at school in a class with 2 or 3 kids who either had unemployed parents or their parent's job didn't permit them to participate in the annual even that was meant to motivate children in continuing their education. I was still different from them...they had mothers and all I had was a granny and a grand daddy. I remember I was in the 3rd grade and I was in the bathroom crying and Mrs. Hall happened to walk past the door and saw me upset (I'm crying even thinking about it) and she asked me what was wrong and I told her "I want a mommy like everybody else to go to work with"...she hugged me and prayed for me right in the bathroom. I was 8 years old and that was the first time I closed my eyes and realized I needed this "God" I was told about. She told me that lots of people think that kids don't have pain but they do and she said that God was going to take care of me and I would feel better soon and that I could come to her whenever I was sad and I did just that. Needless to say, she was of course my favorite teacher. I was mad and had been acting out because I was missing something I could never get no matter how good I was or how many A's I got on my tests. I was a good student, I was just bad as hell. I would have an A for the grade and the teacher would always score me as "poor" for the behavior....it was like that until middle school. I said all that to explain how deeply my sadness has infested my life. So my granny and I was VERY close and just talking about her I can smell her Candid perfume. She brought me out of that spell of acting like a fool by showing me love and kicking my ass at the same time. I was a strange and unique child..I know my mother would have liked me. I am still empty and sometimes feel like a motherless child. God can help u but all of my pain is not gone and all of my tears are not dried. I thank God for allowing my children to not have to endure the pain of not having a mother and a father in their lives. My mother died when she was 26 years old...I am 29 now so she was very young when she died. I used to be scared that I wasn't going to live past 26...I was paranoid. She was in an abusive relationship with my father Johnnie Blackwell. I hated the repetition of his "inhale and exhale" until the day that he died. Sometime I wished he was dead and it actually happened. Sad huh? The only reason why I went to his funeral was because my mama (my grandmother) made me go. I just associated him with pain, death, sorrow, tears, negativity and just something cancerous that needed to be deleted from my life and my memory.

I am strong enough now to admit that I miss having a father in my life. I felt for years that I had to avenge my mother's death by holding hate in my heart for "him". I am just now able to call him my "father"...it may seem minimal to you but that was like an 11th commandment for me not to recognize him as ANYTHING in my life. My father died when I was 15 years old and I remember how when I was over my Aunt Betty's house people were confused because I didn't cry and actually verbalized my feelings and told them "You can't love a stranger" which upset many of my relatives on that side of my family. I said other things to them which is probably the reason most of them hate or either don't like me to this day. I am truly sorry. Just as I am proud to be from the Moten family, I am just as proud to be a Blackwell. Now I am. I remember when he used to come to Mt. Sinai and just sit in the church and stare at me with that red suit on. I would freeze up and cry uncontrollably until my grandmother would have to take me home early. I was a kid...going off of what other people would tell me about him and I built a wall that obviously time and experience could only tear down but now it's too late. Everyone is gone. My husband and my children are my saving grace. Otherwise, I would feel like I am alone. I remember when I was about 13 and he came over my Aunt Betty's house while I was over there and he was sitting on the couch just looking at me and I was forced to sit at the kitchen table because I wanted to go in the garage until he left but that was the last time I saw him. Yeah...I had issues. I was told so many bad things about him. That he was a convict, a rapist and molested his own child (not me..one of my other sisters). But you never know what the truth is and if someone exaggerated a story to scare me even more. So now you understand why I freaked out whenever I saw him. But just as much as I have a yearning for my mother ...I wanted a father too.

My grandparents were my everything. I had a special relationship with both of them and one relationship never trumped the other one, I loved them both equally. But mama....she was my best friend. We did everything together. She would come get me from school in the middle of the day and lie and said I had an appointment and we would end up at Red Lobster...I would always get a strawberry daiquiri without alcohol in it trying to be grown...LOL. She died in 1999 ...we were supposed to take senior pictures together and she died so I never took them. We were supposed to do a lot of things after she got better. I found out AFTER she died that she had cancer...they kept a lot from me because I overreacted when it came to Dorothy Tinsley...she was my boo. You have to understand I was a spoiled, arrogant ass bastard who wanted everything my way. I had very little respect for adults because I felt like they had to earn my respect. Plus, I didn't might flipping over a table, I would whip yo ass. I turned into a person nobody recognized after mama died. I hated God for a while...a long while. But I came back to him later after I developed my own personal relationship with him.

Now...holidays are very hard and all I can do is close my eyes and all I see is food ALL over the kitchen, Uncle Carl and Aunt Jill coming into town with their girls for a couple days...Daddy on his amateur radio (WD8KBX) in the back room...mama's red velvet bed spread ...the yellow paint in the bathroom with that rainbow night light...and Daddy's Cadillac in the garage with Mama's Intrepid behind his car...the wood table in the kitchen...the wood bread box...the green pot she cooked damn near everything in...the mirror in front of the sink...all of daddy's racist stickers on his door...Lana's perfect black and white room...with my princess bedroom with my canopy bed....looking out my window..that daddy just got replaced with new windows....lights on the bushes.....the bowl on top of the bush that mama would catch fresh snow to make snow ice cream. Yeah that's what I remember....but now I just lay here starring at the ceiling and crying with tears in my ears. Pray for me.
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Dating 101...Quit Kissing Ass & Ask Questions.

I am just so sick of this shit I feel like I am basking in the presence of ignorance and mediocrity. When women are looking for a man it seems to me in 2010 women are so fucking desperate to be with someone they are willing to accept whatever treatment these men are dishing out. Women don't demand any requirements or mandatory prerequisites for whatever potential man they consider dating. Quit kissing ass and ask questions. Lucky for me I was raised by my very wise grandmother and not a 30 year old mama still trying to "hit the club". She told me the small things that needs to be said, done and checked before allowing any man to come into your life. I used to ask ALL questions before getting involved with any man, and some answers I would accept at face value but other things like age, marital status, credit score, verification of a high school diploma, number of children and criminal I need documentation to prove what you telling me. I paid $49.99 online and got all the info I needed to feel comfortable in beginning a relationship. My grandmother told me that when you are dating a man the woman is in control. I have said this before...it is up to YOU if he holds your hand, touches your leg, starts a sexual conversation, puts his arm around you with "the yawn move" or anything else. Why do we feel as women that we have to sit mute and allow the man to do or say whatever the hell he wants to do and we just sit there and smile?! Hell no. There should also be no sex involved when you are dating a person because dick clouds reality and judgment. You are supposed to be getting to know this person inside and out and if all you can think about is the way he hit it from the back then what IS important will probably take a back seat position to the premature sex life that has erupted. Some women are saved and active in the body of Christ and feel that they really have a hard time dating because men some men will not accept abstinence in a relationship. Okay, I'm going to tread slowly with this one. So...LOL...it seems when a women has had sex before or even has kids and then decides after she has been saved and decides that she wants to give her heart to Christ or Allah or whatever God she serves that she is wrong from abstaining from sex. If the man respects you he will value your dedication to God on what you are doing. He is a selfish bastard if he tries to pressure you or make you feel bad for the stand that you are taking to be closer to God. I was a virgin until I was engaged at 20 years old. My husband and I lost our virginity to each other and I thank God for the type of husband that I have. As far as sex goes when it does began to happen in your relationship...don't allow just ANY man to play in yo ass. Giving a man sex is not mandatory it is your choice. Men always wanting you to do "special things" in the bedroom when they aren't doing anything extra OUTSIDE the bedroom. How do you expect to get a TRICK when you are not a TREAT?!?? You don't do anything "just because" or make your woman feel like the luckiest girl in the world. If you have to wonder why you are with that fool then you DO NOT need to be with him. Another thing, demand respect!! Don't let a man pull up to pick you up and blow a damn horn in front of your house, only HOES are horn trained and I'm pretty sure you don't live in a hoe house so make that fool come to the door and knock!! If Jesus even comes to the door and knock what makes that sorry ass fool so special?! You also should not allow a man to call u last minute for ANYTHING. Have enough respect for yourself for him to make "plans" for you..actually knowing days in advance that you are going somewhere. Don't be a damn booty call. When you do go on date make a daytime date. Men who only take you out late at night either want some ass or don't want to be seen with you in the daytime. Its a hard pill to swallow but its the truth. Men will only do what you let them do..quit "letting" ...be a real woman and get a backbone.
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Raising Black Children in 2010

Now when i initially wanted to blog about this I was going to blog about "The Education In America", explaining how we need to get off out asses as parents and not just allow your child's teacher to be their only source of education's in their lives. But then I started talking to myself. I said "Self!" and myself said "Huh?" and I told myself that I need to take an extra step in describing how I go from day to day raising my Black Children in America in 2010. I think that I am lucky because I am married to one of the strongest black men that I have ever met in my WHOLE life. I was lucky as a child because even though I grew up without a father and a mother I had help from my family. I was an orphan and was raised by everybody ELSE in my family. I have a piece of almost everyone of my older family members in me because each person instilled something in my character and made me into the person that I am now. When I had homework it was mandatory that I showed it to someone to check it and it had to be done before 6pm. I am going to list some of the things that I know will make your house less confrontational with respectful children and well educated.

First of all being that I was raised by my grandmother I am a 29 year old OLD SCHOOL parent. My children have rules and they will fear me before they fear God. There is no conversations or negotiations when you are the child and I am the parent. That doesn't mean that I don't allow my children to have a voice or to express themselves but YOU WILL do it respectfully. Everything has a time and a place. Alot of people think just because you whip your children they are going to end up being perfect children and will learn the lesson. But, just like with a dog...if he poops in the house...you can smack the hell out of him but if you do not rub his nose in that SHIT (literally) then he will think you are beating him for no reason. You have to explain before and after the reason why they are getting reprimanded. They will not know if you don't tell them, and making them aware of the things that are unacceptable will keep them from doing it again unless they are just out of control. You have to have unmovable and permanent rules that they won't even think about asking for wiggle room because somethings should be mandated. Doing this will instill order and organization in their inner core and in their character as adults and they will eventually do the same with their children. Trust me I know. LOL

Start young with your children doing education things with them so they will look at education as being a FUN event!Encourage your children! Praise them...over and over and over again !! You have to be an advocate for your child's education because the public school system just wants to get them in and out with getting funding for them which is why they PUSH for every student to be present on student count day. Raising a black boy in America is different from raising a black girl in America because they both need the same love and they have certain things they HAVE to learn besides boys learning to pee and the birds and the bees talk with the girl when she gets her period. They need to learn what it means to be a black man and a black woman and the best way they can get confirmation is by seeing you as an example.

Doing homework is one of those things where there should be absolutely NO wiggle room. My kids laugh at me because I have been homeschooling them ever since they were 3 years old. When they come home to MY HOUSE they have the homework their teacher has given and then they have HOME work which is the work I have for them to do. I go the extra mile for my children because sacrifices have to be made on my account in order to get them to where I want them to be. I refuse to put them in a private school for them to get a better education. Don't throw the public schools away...there are some good teachers out there and if you happen to get a teacher that has their "Tenyear" already and doesn't care then you give that BITCH a run for her money. I'm talking about asking to see her lesson a month in advance and you get online and look to see if what she is teaching the kids in the grade equivalent to other school districts. Make her/him hate to see yo ass coming. For those of you who are not aware of what it means when a teacher gets their "Tenyear"...that means that after a certain number of years teachers have a permanent job forever and they have 100% job security and doesn't have to worry about proving anything to anyone because their job is secure so they can basically just show up and give out work and then put their iPod in their ears and that would be their prerogative. With my kid's teachers I make myself available financially and physically. So it is not like I am just this "Dragon Bitch" that is just mean to all my kid's teachers. But they know I am not to be fucked with even if we do have a good relationship. I am raising the next president of the United States of America, the next State Senator, the next heart surgeon, the next CEO of a fortune 500 company....I am raising celebrities. Yeah, I have ALL of that hope for my twins and you should too. Do you?

Another thing you have to do is be PRESENT. I don't give a damn if you have to get a different job to make yourself present in their school and in sports activities for them so they will succeed. Never allow excuses because they are just like an asshole..everybody's got one. I am just so sick of these sorry ass parents not being ALL UP IN their kid's business. Moniter internet access, go get the program that records what they are doing on the internet. Are you snooping?! Why is that even a topic? You are a parent, it is your responsibility to keep them away from hurt, harm and danger. Reduce TV to only weekends. Hannah Montana can kiss my ass. There is no logical why children should watch TV during the week. Make rules with them that is going to better their lives. Now being that I cut out TV during the week that means that we do educational things and fun things that are physical activities outside so they will not fall in the 70% of overweight children in the US. Even if you go for a walk with your kids and count how many trees you see there and on the way back and give a prize for the correct answer. Make things like that fun. You know what? when the weekend comes around, they will be so used to not watching TV that they might not even have the urge. Kids should only be able to do what you ALLOW them to do.

You should not be "strict" without explaining why you do what you do. I wake them up an hour early in the morning and read with them. Why do I do that? They have to be more advanced as black children to be able to be accepted in this world even though they are 8 years old. I have had to teach and have a conversation with them that white parents don't have to have. I had to explain what slavery was. I had to explain why the color of their skin can still prevent them from getting something that they might deserve. I had to explain affirmative action. I had to give the definition of racism. I had to tell them where the word NIGGER came from and why I never want to hear that damn word in my house. These are conversations I have been having with them since the age of 6 years old. You say that's too young...my children are intelligent, you could have a full length conversation with my kids about racism and be surprised by their answers. I am raising black children in America in 2010.

My daughter and my son knows what rape is. They know that some adults and even younger kids have a problem with "touching people in private parts" I have explained that in the most PG and G way that I knew how, but I need to educate them to know what it is and how not to put themselves in a predicament where something like that can happen. I moniter the type of clothes she wears and there are certain things she can't do like eat a popsicle outside or bent over with her butt facing the street or walk out of the bathroom without being fully dressed. You may think that is too much but I don't want to give anybody any ideas. You may think that is too extreme but I bet JonBenet' Ramsey's parents wished they went a different route with their daughter. Truth is brutal but it will always be the truth.

We have to do better as parents. I will leave you with this quote.

"Excuses are monuments of nothingness. They build bridges to nowhere. Those who use these tools of incompetence are masters of nothingness. Therefore there are no excuses."

Get it together.
Angie~(Peaches)

SPOIL YOUR MAN IF HE IS GOOD TO YOU.

I GUESS I JUST WRITE ON HERE WHEN I HAVE SOMETHING IN MY HEART TO GIVE THAT HASN'T BEEN GIVEN. I AM THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT IF I LOVE YOU I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU...HELL I DON'T EVEN HAVE TO OFFICIALLY LOVE YOU I JUST HAVE TO CARE A LITTLE BIT AND I'LL GIVE YOU MY LAST. BUT UNFORTUNATELY IN LIFE PEOPLE DON'T GIVE BACK WHAT YOU DISH OUT. I HAVE ALOT OF LOVE TO GIVE AND I HAVE DEALT WITH A LOT OF HEARTBREAK FROM A FEW PEOPLE IN GENERAL. WHEN I GOT MARRIED I HAD TO WORK ON ALOT OF THINGS WITHIN MYSELF TO MAKE THE UNION BETWEEN MY HUSBAND AND I WORK OUT.......ALOT OF TIMES PEOPLE THINK THAT IT'S JUST THE OTHER PERSON WHO NEEDS TO DO ALL THE WORK BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT IF BOTH PEOPLE AREN'T WILLING TO COME TOGETHER IN THE MIDDLE THEN SOMEONE IS EITHER GONNA FEEL LIKE THEY ARE WORKING HARDER THAN THE OTHER IN THE END. NOW, WHEN IT CAME TO MY MARRAIGE I HAD TO WORK ON NOT COMPARING MY HUSBAND TO GUYS THAT I HAVE "DEALT" WITH IN THE PAST. TRYING TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DIDN'T LOVE ME THE SAME WAY AND AND GETTING DISSAPOINTED OF HOPES OF SOMETHING SIMPLE TURNING INTO SOMETHING THAT THE OTHER PERSON WASN'T INTERESTED IN DOING. I MEAN.....ANYBODY CAN LOOK AT ME AND SEE THAT I'M CUTE......I'M A BIG GIRL BUT I'M SEXY AS HELL......I WEAR CUTE ASS CLOTHES, I WEAR PERFUME , MAKEUP AND EYELASHES AND STILETTOS ......DON'T THINK THAT I FEEL THAT I HAVE TO DO ALL THIS TO BE ANGIE BUT THAT IS JUST WHO I AM. I GET MY HAIR DONE ALL THE TIME, I GET MY NAILS AND MY TOES DONE MATCHING EACH OTHER EVERYTIME I GO TO THE NAIL SHOP.........I MEAN THAT'S JUST ME !!!!! SO IN SAYING ALL THAT.......I WAS CONFUSED IN WHY THE OTHER GUY WASN'T FEELING ME LIKE I WAS FEELING HIM.......I MEAN DAMN...!!!!!! SO I HAD TO BRING ALL THIS AND TRY TO NOT COMPARE MY HUSBAND TO THE GUYS THAT I HAVE DEALT WITH IN THE PAST. I HAVE ALOT OF FRIENDS WHO ARE LONELY AND PROBABLY WILL BE BITTER FOR A LONG TIME BECAUSE THEY MAKE THE NEW MAN PAY FOR THEIR PREVIOUS GUY'S MISTAKE. I DIDN'T WANT TO BE THAT WOMAN. I LOVE LAUGHTER, COOKING FOR MY MAN, RUNNING BATH WATER AFTER HE COMES HOME FROM WORK AND DESPITE THE FACT THAT I'M A FREAK I CAN'T SEE NOT HAVING SEX FOR MORE THAT 3 DAYS SO.......NAH.....SEX ISN'T WHAT I'M ALL ABOUT BUT I LIKE IT ALOT AND IF I PUT THE WEIGHT OF ANOTHER MAN ON THE NEW ONE THEN IT WILL NOT LAST VERY LONG. NOW DON'T THINK THAT I'M JUST THIS DUMB B_____H WHO DOES ANY AND EVERYTHING FOR MY MAN AND HE'S NOT DOING ANYTHING FOR ME. I ONLY DO FOR HIM WHAT I TRULY KNOW IN MY HEART THAT HE WILL RECIPROCATE FOR ME. WHEN I LOVE I LOVE HARD , WHEN I HATE , I HATE HARD........ONLY A SELECTED FEW KNOWS HOW CRAZY I CAN BE ND MY HUBBY KNOWS MORE THAN ANYBODY ELSE. BUT I JUST WANT EVERYBODY TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT A PUNK IF YOU BREAK DOWN AND LOVE SOMEBODY.....BECAUSE LOVING IS WHERE HAPPINESS LIES. HURT PEOPLE- HURT PEOPLE. WHEN YOU ARE HURTING YOU HURT OTHERS BECAUSE YOU ATTAIN NO HAPPINESS. THE HARDEST THING FOR A WOMAN TO HAVE IS A GOOD MAN WHEN SHE HAS HAD NOTHING BUT BAD ONES BECAUSE SHE WILL ONLY ASSUME WHEN SHE IS USED TO. I AM LUCKY. MY HUSBAND IS MY BEST FRIEND, MY LOVER AND A GOOD REASON TO SMILE. THAT'S WHY HE GETS SPOILED BECAUSE HE SPOILS ME.

Can I get an AMEN ?!?!?

CAN U FILL THIS IN !?!?!?!!?!?!?LOL
Body: First giving ______ and ______to God, who is the _______ of my life, I'd like
to say I'm glad to be in the ________ of the Lord one mo' time. Cause
he brought me from a _____long_____. I coulda been ______, sleeping in
my________, but God is_______ all the ________, and all the_____,
God is_______. He's a _______ over troubled _______. He's a mother to
the ________, and a_________to the __________, a doctor in a ________
room, and a ___________ in the courtroom! (smile) He's the_______
of the valley, a bright and ________star He got up early one
__________ mo'ning, with all __________ in his _______. Pray for me that I grow
_________ in the Lord." Also, as you look in your church_______,
under the special ________ please keep in your prayer _______ Sista
Buela-___ Jenkins who will be having her ________ surgery this
week.
And while you give your tithes and _______ we humbly ask that you
contribute to the church_______ fund and we will be celebrating the
pastor's fifteenth________ so anybody please who serves on the
_______ board please meet behind the ________ following_________. And the
women's auxiliary will be selling ________ dinners for $7.00 a _____ along
with the youth ______ who will be having their annual ______ sale
to help fund their trip to the national Youth ministry _______ in
Tennessee this summer. Parents please be _______that vacation_______school
begins June __, please have your child________ by May 13.

Now, before we turn it over to the _____ Team, ___ to your ________ right quick and say ________: God is Good?? ___ ___ ____!!...And All the Time?? ___ __ ____!!

How To Guarantee.... Not To Get Stuck With A Man With A Small Dick.

You know, it would be good if the inches of a man's penis could be posted right on his forehead like they speak of in the book of Revelations during the Apocalypse, because I think having a small penis is truly the "sign of the beast" and you need to be recognized and put on blast. Unfortunately, you have to make sure you don't get caught with a small penis man. There are many ways you can do this but you can't be over analytical when doing what is required. C'mon Son! #1 You DO NOT fall in love with a man without seeing his penis first. #2 If you are a virgin and a devout christian or muslim you need to walk into the bathroom by "accident" you make sure that fool don't have a man who is pissing on his balls. #3 You do not go on more than 3 dates with a man without asking to see his penis first. Why? If you don't ask you won't know. You can't always reply on "penis bumps" some men stuff their draws just like women stuff their bras. Real talk. The reason why you can't go more than 3 dates without seeing the dick, is because if you fall in love or start getting feelings for him you might let the small dick "slide" if he "treats you right" ...um...hell no. You should not put mileage on your pussy with "pity sex". Pity sex is when you have sex with a man when you really don't want to and you FAKE the whole way but its still consensual. There are some "nice small dick men" who needs love but I'm not the one that's going to give it to them. Over 30% of women in America are sexually unsatisfied. What statistic do you want to fall into? Me...I am in the statistic of women who are getting their "Back Blew Out". Real talk. Me personally I think all men who are not circumcised do not deserve oral sex unless it is worth your time..like 8 or 9 inches worth..and please don't let it be skinny and long but FAT and long. I need my pussy walls stretched. They have all that extra meat...you gotta pull skin back just to get to the fuckin' head?! Hell naw. You can keep that! UNLESS it is worth your time. When my husband and I was on our 2nd date I asked to see his dick and he was surprised because I was a virgin at the time. He laughed at me and pulled it out when I told him why I wanted to see it. He showed me and ...I married him for a reason *wink*! When the man will pull out his dick with no hesitation, its a good sign because he probably has a good size penis. I have no tolerance for small dicks and you shouldn't either. Kindergarten penis should be saved for the percentage of black men that go to white women. I remember when I was at Jackson State University in Mississippi and one of my hall mates got married and called me at like 2am..."Angie!! You were right!! I should have looked!!" She screamed while sniffing and crying at the same time without introducing herself but strangely I knew exactly who it was. Long story~short...her daddy was a big pastor from where she was from and she was scared to check the dick like I told her. She was a virgin and thought she would be sinning against God by just looking being that she was a virgin. Now, years later she is not even married because she said the dick felt like a TAMPON. Sex is not everything but it is an important part in a marriage if you want a healthy marriage. I don't know about you.... but I want to express my love and affection for my husband by sliding up and down his penis while bussing on top of him while all my juices run down his dick while riding him at FULL FORCE. Now how the hell you gone do that if the shit falls out every two minutes? Exactly. Why waste money?...Waste time?...A whole wedding?...When all you gotta do is ASK to see his penis by the 3rd date. Checking the dick will also reduce crime rates as well because let's just say you get ready to have sex and he gets naked and you refuse due to him having a deflated balloon for a penis and his lil dick ass rapes you? ...Hopefully I have once again given you something to think about. Check the Dick!!!!!! Trust me.

Angie~(Peaches)
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